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“I keep meaning to reach out, but life gets in the way.”
“I want to spend more time with friends, but planning is exhausting.”
“Why is socialising as an adult so HARD?”If this sounds like you, you’re exactly where you need to be.
Why connections fade (and how to fix it)
We all know friendships matter. But when you’re busy, maintaining them feels like another task on an already full plate.The result? We default to:* Texting “We should hang out soon” (and never following through)
* Scrolling instead of socialising, even when we crave connection
* Saying yes to plans we don’t even enjoy, just to be socialWhether you’re feeling disconnected from your social circle, tired of screens, or just unsure how to enjoy time with others in a meaningful way — you’re not alone.The truth is: it’s not your fault — we were never taught how to make connections feel easy, meaningful, or just enjoyable again.That’s where Together Kit comes in.
Your shortcut to a more connected life
Together Kit isn’t just a newsletter. It’s your monthly toolkit for making socialising feel simple — and satisfying.We do the thinking for you — so you can spend less time planning and more time actually enjoying your life offline.
For over a decade, we’ve been focused on one thing: making real-life connection easier, and bringing people together through memorable, low-effort offline experiences.Issues include:* Socialising Blueprint – Easy-to-execute ideas, no planning required
* Social Hacks – From handling awkward moments to deepening bonds
* Recharge Rituals – When you need downtime alone or post-socialising
* Offline Escapes – Hands-on and slow activities to help you reset
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Why I built Together Kit
Hi, I’m Thomas — and I believe the best connections happen in real life.I’ve always been that person in my friend group — the one planning movie marathons, scavenger hunts, ridiculous dinner parties, and weekend adventures. I love bringing people together and making sure nobody feels left out.
Over the years, I realised something important:We don’t just need more time with friends — we need better ways to share that time.We all crave connection, but:*Everyone’s busy
*Planning is a chore
*Finding good ideas? That’s a job in itselfSo I made it my actual job.
From event planning to Together Kit
For over a decade, I worked as an event planner, creating unforgettable moments — from dinners and parties to festivals and workshops. But no matter the event, my goal was always the same: to help people feel closer to each other.Because the point was never just the event.The point was always the connection.
I saw how often friendships faded not because people didn’t care — but because life made it hard to stay close, and harder still to make time for meaningful, offline fun.That’s why I created Together Kit in 2013: to make in-person connection easier, less overwhelming, and way more enjoyable. (Learn about how things began here).Whether you’re looking to spend time with friends, reconnect with your own life away from screens, or simply have fun that feels human again — this space is for you.
What you’ll find here
* Socialising blueprints — no awkward small talk, no overthinking
* Offline experiences that make connecting feel effortless, not like a task
* Tools for real connection — with friends, new people, or yourself
* Community — we all want to connect and just need the right nudgeTogether Kit is your shortcut to connection — simple, fun, and real.You don’t have to plan. You just have to show up.
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Nurturing bonds, every month
You’re here, because you want to make the most of your time with friends, find quality ways to hang out, and to do so offline and in-person.Together Kit is your shortcut to easy socialising, deeper connections, through fun.
Every month, you’ll get ideas such as:* Social blueprints – Done-for-you ideas you can use after reading them.
* Connection-boosting tips – How to keep old and new friendships strong.
* Recharge rituals – Because socialising is great, but so is me-time.
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Stressed Out And Alone? This Simple Solution Might Surprise YouSocial Anxiety Making Events Feel Impossible? You’re Not AloneFix One-Sided Friendships—Fast!
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Stressed At Work—A Quick Way To Find Calm AgainWant To Scream At Your Boss But Can’t? THISShort On Time But Need Instant Stress Relief? This Is Your Answer!
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I saw how often friendships faded not because people didn’t care — but because life made it hard to stay close, and harder still to make time for meaningful, offline fun.Whether you’re looking to spend time with friends, reconnect with your own life away from screens, or simply have fun that feels human again — this space is for you.
Then vs now
I started Together Kit back in 2013 after a decade as an event planner and a key realisation along the way: that adults need more opportunities to get together and party than kids do—and they deserve it even more.
Evolution of Together Kit over the years:
Between work, responsibilities, and the daily grind, life gets busy, and finding time to unwind can feel like a luxury. While there were endless party options for kids, the choices for grown-ups felt either uninspired, generic, or just plain dull.Plus, who had the time to plan social events from scratch? (Uh, no one).That’s where Together Kit came in—offering ready-made creative escapes for adults to come together and make memories.Before long, the idea grew beyond just parties and events, expanding into activities for friends and new ways to stay connected.Now, some 11 years later, the heart of Together Kit remains the same—that of friendships and joy with more ideas than ever before.
Tired of feeling stuck in small talk?
Here's the fix
Have you ever found yourself in a room full of people, and the pressure to make small talk feels overwhelming? You’re stuck, unsure how to keep the conversation flowing, feeling the weight of awkward silence creeping in. You wish you could just escape, because it feels so embarrassing, so frustrating. Why does something as simple as starting a conversation have to feel so difficult? The pressure to make a good impression is constant, but when you don’t know what to say next, it’s easy to feel isolated, unsure, and even self-conscious.Conquering Small Talk: 1000 Conversation Starter Questions For Any Social Event is your personal toolkit for navigating social situations with ease. This carefully crafted resource offers over 1000 questions covering 37 topics—from light-hearted subjects like food and sports, to deeper, thought-provoking areas like philosophy and science. Whether you’re at a dinner party, company event, or a large gathering, this book helps you navigate any conversation, making you feel confident and engaged, not anxious or stuck.This isn’t just a list of random questions—it’s a practical tool designed to save you time and stress. With over 200 pages, you’ll never run out of things to say. The interactive design lets you cut out the questions you want to use and carry them with you, so you’re always prepared for whatever social setting you find yourself in. Plus, with a user-friendly table of contents (perfect for your phone), you can easily jump to the section that suits the conversation you’re in, allowing for instant access to conversation starters whenever you need them.By purchasing this book, you’re not just investing in a set of questions—you’re investing in your social confidence. You’ll no longer feel embarrassed or frustrated when small talk becomes difficult. Conquering Small Talk is the tool that saves you from awkward silences and helps you create meaningful, enjoyable connections that last.
Conquering Small Talk: 1000 Conversation Starter Questions For Any Social Event: $12.99 (excluding VAT)
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Had a rough day? Here’s how to turn it into laughs with friends!
After a long week at work or an intense day of meetings, there’s nothing better than gathering with friends for a relaxing evening. Maybe you’re enjoying fine wine, craft beer, or cocktails, but something feels missing. The conversations are nice, the drinks are flowing, but you’re looking for that extra spark to elevate the night. You want to laugh, connect, and create memories—but the idea of college-style drinking games like Beer Pong or Flip Cup doesn’t match your vibe anymore. You crave something playful yet refined, a way to break the ice, add a twist to the evening, and turn your downtime into something truly unforgettable.Sip, Laugh, Unwind: After Hours Fun For Busy Friends is the perfect solution for adults who appreciate the art of socialising as much as the pleasure of a good drink. Designed for sophisticated drinkers in their 30s and beyond, this book offers over 80+ innovative drinking games that are as elegant and diverse as your tastes. Forget the outdated party games of the past—this collection combines creativity, wit, and a touch of style to make any social gathering special.From cocktail challenges like the Mixology Showdown to improv games that will leave everyone laughing, from Victorian-era curiosities like Fool’s Feast to summer-perfect activities, this book has something for every mood and occasion. Whether you’re hosting a wine night at home, meeting friends for post-work cocktails, or celebrating the holidays, Sip, Laugh, Unwind ensures you’ll never run out of ways to connect and entertain.This isn’t just a book—it’s your ultimate tool for crafting unforgettable social moments. With a linked table of contents, you can easily navigate its pages, finding the perfect game for any gathering. Keep it on your phone or tablet, so you’ll always have a resource at your fingertips when you need to break the ice or bring new energy to the room. And it doesn’t stop at games—inside, you’ll also find alcohol-themed trivia quizzes to test your knowledge and adult colouring pages with cheeky puns to enjoy during quieter moments.Sip, Laugh, Unwind is more than entertainment—it’s about elevating your social experiences, turning ordinary evenings into memorable celebrations, and giving you the tools to unwind in style. Whether you’re looking to impress as a host or simply bond with friends in a new way, this book is your gateway to creating laughter, connection, and stories you’ll share for years to come.
Sip, Laugh, Unwind: After Hours Fun For Busy Friends: $14.99 (excluding VAT)
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Can’t afford a sick day after a big night out? We’ve got you
It’s the morning after a fantastic evening—great drinks, great company—but now you’re paying the price. Your head is pounding, your stomach is in knots, and the idea of getting through the day feels impossible. You’ve got deadlines to meet, meetings to attend, and people counting on you, but the hangover has other plans. Powering through feels like a losing battle: you’re distracted, drained, and far from your best. You can’t afford to take a sick day, and the last thing you need is for this to affect your work or relationships.Hangovers aren’t just inconvenient; they leave you feeling frustrated and stuck. But what if you could recover quickly, feel like yourself again, and move on with your day?Hangover Recovery Kit is your practical guide to conquering hangovers, designed for busy professionals who need their energy and focus back fast. This 140-page book goes beyond quick fixes, explaining the science behind hangovers—why they happen, what really works to alleviate them, and what’s just a myth. It’s packed with 50+ quick recipes that nourish and energise, so you’re not stuck snacking on chips or forcing down greasy takeout. Whether you’re craving something sweet, savoury, or vegetarian, we’ve got you covered with meals and smoothies that take 30 minutes or less to prepare.But recovery isn’t just about food. The book includes low-effort activities designed to help you recharge without feeling stuck in bed all day. These small, manageable steps give you back control of your day and your energy, so you can face work, friends, or family with confidence—even after a long night.With a linked table of contents, the book is easy to navigate on your phone or tablet, making it a convenient tool to use whenever and wherever you need it. Whether you’re at home, on the go, or preparing for the next big night out, Hangover Recovery Kit equips you with everything you need to tackle hangovers head-on.This isn’t just about surviving a hangover—it’s about reclaiming your day, protecting your productivity, and keeping your reputation intact. Don’t let a great night derail your momentum. With Hangover Recovery Kit, you’ll feel ready to take on whatever’s next.
Hangover Recovery Kit: The Essential Guide To Bouncing Back After A Night Out: $14.99 (excluding VAT)
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Stressed out and alone? This simple solution might surprise you
Life is busy—work, errands, social media, and the endless stream of texts. It’s easy to feel like you’re drifting apart from the people who matter. Before you know it, weeks pass, and you haven’t seen or heard from your closest friends. That space can make you feel invisible, like you’re moving through life without the warmth of connection.Enter The Kindness Journal: Capturing Nice Words Between Friends. Think of it as your little antidote to the chaos, a way to bring back the warmth and kindness that can easily slip through the cracks. It’s designed to help you capture the good stuff—the compliments, the small acts of generosity, the messages that make your day.Whether it’s a kind word from a colleague or a sweet text from a friend, this journal is here to keep those moments from getting lost. Just take 10-20 minutes at the end of each day to reflect and jot them down. You’ll be amazed at how much it reminds you that you’re appreciated—even on your hardest days.It’s small, sleek, and portable—6 x 9 inches, so you can slip it in your bag and carry it everywhere. It’s a personal space just for you, with a layout that’s simple yet impactful. Every day gets one page, so it’s quick and easy to fill out. No need for big writing sessions—just one nice thing from your day, and you’re done.The weekly reflection pages give you a chance to pause, celebrate the wins (big or small), and be grateful for the little things you might have missed. Don’t feel like writing? There’s space to sketch your thoughts. The journal is flexible, no pressure, just a space to help you reconnect with what matters. It’s undated, so you can start any time. With over 250 pages, it’s a journey that turns into a keepsake—a collection of moments that remind you of how loved and valued you truly are.This isn’t just about writing down positive moments—it’s about carving out space to remember the kindness, the joy, and the people who make life better. When stress or doubt creeps in, flipping through your Kindness Journal will ground you, reminding you that even on the toughest days, there’s always something good to hold onto.
The Kindness Journal: Capturing Nice Words Between Friends: $6.99 (excluding VAT)
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What to do when your friendship feels one-sided and you’re fed up?
Feeling drained and unappreciated in a friendship is a quiet kind of heartbreak, one that’s hard to put into words but feels all too familiar. You’re the one always reaching out, planning meetups, keeping the connection alive—while the other person seems distant, indifferent. It’s exhausting, and it leaves you questioning what you’re doing wrong, even though deep down, you know you deserve better. You’ve poured so much love and care into this friendship, and the idea of letting it go feels like a loss. Yet staying feels just as painful, leaving you torn and stuck in a cycle of frustration and hurt.That’s where Reclaim Your Energy: Your Guide To One-Sided Friendships comes in. This heartfelt guide was created to help you untangle the confusion and emotional toll of these relationships. It shines a light on the 13 most common reasons why one-sided friendships happen and reveals the #1 flaw in friendships that no one talks about—giving you the clarity and understanding to make sense of it all.You’ll learn how to recognise the 10 early signs of a friendship that might become one-sided, so you can protect yourself before it takes a toll. And for those already feeling stuck, this book offers 6 exclusive tools designed to help you make informed decisions. Whether you choose to repair the friendship or let it go, these tools will guide you with kindness, helping you care for yourself along the way.Friendships are meant to bring mutual support, joy, and balance—not leave you feeling worn down and undervalued. With Reclaim Your Energy, you’ll find the tools and encouragement to refocus on relationships that nourish you. Whether you’re ready to heal the connection or move forward, this guide is here to support you with every step, helping you find peace, clarity, and the strength to put your happiness first.
Reclaim Your Energy: Your Guide To One-Sided Friendship, $19.99 (excluding VAT)
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Stressed at work? Here’s a quick way to find calm again
Ever feel like you’re drowning in stress at work, with no time to take a breather? The constant deadlines, back-to-back meetings, and the never-ending stream of emails, never lets up. You get home after a long day, and all you want is to collapse.But even as you sink into the sofa, your mind races with thoughts of tomorrow’s workload, the stress of dealing with people, and the feeling that you're losing sight of yourself. You’re caught in the cycle of stress, maybe even exhaustion, and it feels like you’re just surviving, with no time to recharge, no space to breathe.Luckily, you can get the respite you need, and you don’t need to carve out a chunk of time to do it either (unless you want to, that is). Colour Your Calm: Uplifting Words For Busy Lives is here to remind you of your strength, your worth, and the future ahead of you.This adult colouring book features 40+ pages, in US letter size (8.5 x 11 inches), each filled with a motivational quote against a detailed backdrop. Colouring doesn’t take much effort, yer thanks to these intricate designs, the act of doing so can calm your mind—and also fill it with positive affirmations.Whether you colour for an hour, or just 15 minutes while on a coffee break, Colour Your Calm will help you reclaim your inner calm and remind you how amazing you truly are.
Colour Your Calm: Uplifting Words For Busy Lives: $6.99 (excluding VAT)
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Want to scream at your boss but can’t? Try this to ease your stress
Have you ever found yourself sitting at your desk, seething with rage, because a teammate has just done something stupid? Perhaps your boss has just dumped even more work on you, when you’ve just gotten through the last pile—only you bite your tongue?It’s those moments when everything inside you wants to speak up—to tell them what’s really on your mind, tell them how you really feel. Except you can’t. You know if you did, you’d probably upset people, maybe even lose your job in the process.So, you swallow your anger, keep your thoughts to yourself, and keep going, even though you're at your breaking point. It’s exhausting. But what if there was a way to get those feelings out without the risk of confrontation?Thanks to Things I Want To Say At Work (But Can’t), you can finally get it all off your chest, by colouring it out!Here’s your chance to grumble, laugh, and vent through the power of humour and marker pens. Packed with 50 original designs each paired with funny quotes, Things I Want To Say At Work (But Can’t) is perfect for letting go of all that angst—without saying a word out loud.At 8.5 x 11 inches, you can print it at home and start colouring away. Each page is going to wring every ounce of frustration out of you, until you feel more like your normal self again.Time to get colouring! It’s silly, it‘s cathartic and best of all, it’s fun!
Things I Want To Say At Work (But Can’t): A Hilarious Adult Colouring Book For Office Frustrations: $6.99 (excluding VAT)
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Short on time but need instant stress relief? This is your answer!
When work and life are breathing down your neck, trying to look after yourself can be near impossible. It feels like you're juggling everything or like you're spread way too thin. And sure, stress relief is crucial, but finding the right fix is hard. Meditation might work wonders for some, but they’re not everyone's cup of tea. So, what's the solution? How about something a little simpler: writing. But not just random scribbling—it’s writing in a way that helps you untangle your emotions and release the tension.That’s exactly why Journey Into Calm: A Stress Relief Journal That Brings You Home was born. At 6 inches by 9 inches, it's your trusty guide to working through stress in a way that actually feels good. In just 10 to 20 minutes a day, you’ll dive into thoughtful prompts that help you process and understand your emotions in a way that makes sense.You’ll find questions like: “Today I’m feeling...”, “Why am I feeling this way?”, and “What thoughts are helping me right now?”—giving you a structured space to sort out what’s going on inside. Plus, there’s room to reflect on what you’d do differently, what soothes your stress, and (of course) the things you're grateful for.At the end of each week, Journey Into Calm takes your reflections to the next level. There are fun exercises to look back on your wins, celebrate your friends and family’s achievements, and track all the new things you've learned. A handy self-care checklist helps you celebrate those little acts of kindness you showed yourself, while extra reflection pages encourage you to think about your personal strengths, dreams, and moments of gratitude. And every four weeks, a monthly mood tracker helps you spot trends in how you’ve been feeling.True to its name, this journal guides you from stress to calm, step by step. With 300 pages spanning six months, this journal is designed to be your steady companion, a quiet, reassuring presence. And because each entry is undated, you can pick it up whenever you need it—no pressure, no guilt.When life starts to pile up, Journey Into Calm is here to help you regain your balance. This isn’t just about taking the edge off—it’s about creating the space and support you need to navigate life’s curveballs with a little more ease.
Journey Into Calm: A Stress Relief Journal That Brings You Home: $8.99 (excluding VAT)
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Need stress relief? What if horror could help you unwind?
Life can feel relentless. The grind of work, bills, and the ever-present noise of the world can leave you feeling drained. Finding a way to escape—even for a little while—can be difficult. Meditation isn’t for everyone. Meanwhile, there’s something uniquely soothing about sitting down with a colouring book and losing yourself in the simple, repetitive motion of filling in flowers and mandalas.But not everyone finds peace in colouring flowers and mandalas. If you love shows like The Walking Dead, Wednesday, or Stranger Things, if horror movies excite you, or if you simply crave something different from the usual, Defy The Darkness: An Adult Colouring Book For The Brave comes in.Instead of soft, repetitive patterns, Defy The Darkness takes you into a world of eerie beauty, with 65 unique and intricately detailed portraits that capture the essence of the strange and the macabre. From witches and vampires to ghouls, zombies, and haunting figures that seem to step out of shadowed hallways, this collection is designed for those who appreciate the thrill of the unusual.There’s nothing gory or disturbing here, don’t worry! Each portrait is presented without a border, meaning the designs extend right to the edge of the page, giving you the freedom to bring the artwork to life. At 8.5 inches by 11 inches, this book offers ample space for colouring.And when you’ve finished a piece, you can tear it out and display your favourite ghoul on your wall, turning your artwork into a striking personal statement.More than just a pastime, Defy The Darkness is a way to step outside the ordinary and embrace something bold, something memorable. We guarantee this book will help you escape the stress of life. It promises a colouring journey unlike any other. Give it a try—you just might find that colouring in the dark brings you a little more light.
Defy The Darkness: An Adult Colouring Book For The Brave: $9.99 (excluding VAT)
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Social anxiety making events feel impossible? You’re not alone
Does the thought of attending an event fill you with dread? The pressure to navigate small talk, face unfamiliar faces, and perform socially can feel overwhelming, especially when most of your connections happen online. Weeks before the event, you find yourself replaying worst-case scenarios in your head, second-guessing your ability to handle the situation. The stress is exhausting, and by the time the event arrives, you’re ready to cancel entirely. But what if there were a way to feel prepared, confident, and even excited about stepping into any social gathering?Enter the Beyond The Screen: Social Confidence Kit, your ultimate no-fluff companion designed to tackle social anxiety head-on. Packed with five exclusive tools you won’t find anywhere else, this kit is built for action. Imagine knowing exactly what to expect at events, from business networking nights to intimate dinner parties, and having a clear game plan to navigate each with ease. With practical preparation tips, conversation starters, and even tools to track your social connections, this kit takes the guesswork out of socialising.No more second-guessing or wasting hours searching for advice online. Whether you’re mingling at a company event or catching up with family at a reunion, the Beyond The Screen kit ensures you’re ready to shine. You’ll find strategies to handle every situation, from breaking the ice with low-effort party games to staying on top of invites and follow-ups. And when it’s time to recharge, calming adult colouring pages are just a tap away.Designed to be your portable coach, this guide fits right on your phone or tablet, with a linked table of contents for instant access. It’s not just about surviving social events; it’s about transforming them into opportunities to connect, relax, and enjoy yourself. With this kit, you’ll save time, avoid awkward moments, and feel empowered to step out from behind the screen and into the room with confidence.
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